When You Dont Know What You Want Anymore

Not knowing what you want
isn't always confusion.

Sometimes it's exhaustion.

When you've spent years being what others needed,
your own desires start to feel unfamiliar - even suspicious.

Here's the hard diagnosis:

You might not be lost.
You might be unlistening.

Because desire is often the first thing we silence
when we're trying to be responsible, mature, composed.
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Try this tonight:

• Write three things you used to care about.
• Circle one that still stirs you - even slightly.
• Ask: "What did I trade this for?"

That answer will sting.
Good.

Clarity doesn't always come like a lightning bolt.
Sometimes it comes like a quiet ache
that refuses to die.

Follow the ache.