“Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it.” — Proverbs 22:6

O.J.A-Y won’t inherit fear. He’ll inherit clarity, conviction, and a legacy rooted in purpose.

Here’s what I’m teaching him—and living in front of him:

• Think critically. Ask better questions. Weigh narratives. Seek wisdom over noise.
• Lead with humility. Strength without pride. Service before spotlight. Repent quickly; forgive fully.
• Fight spiritually. Our battles are not flesh and blood. Pray, fast, guard your mind, wield the Word.
• Honor truth—even when it costs. Integrity is expensive; pay it gladly.

Principles Over Preferences

Trends fade. Principles build families.

1. Identity before activity. Who you are in God anchors what you do in life.
2. Standards before feelings. Feelings follow formation. Build disciplines that carry you when emotions won’t.
3. Order before speed. Pace kills when there’s no structure. Put first things first—faith, family, work.
4. Stewardship before status. Money and titles don’t raise sons. Time, presence, and wisdom do.
5. Courage before comfort. Say the hard thing. Do the right thing. Walk the narrow road.

Legacy on Purpose

My father taught provision; I’m adding formation—mind, spirit, character.
I want a son who can build nations because he first learned to govern himself.

Manhood isn’t defined by culture. It’s defined by the Word. That’s the inheritance.

Build with us. If these principles resonate, share them with a friend and start a conversation at your table. Need counsel or collaboration? Contact me.