Fatherhood Standards Card
Fatherhood Standards Card
Standards keep the house steady when storms arrive. Print, laminate, and place where it's seen daily.
The Standards
- Presence over performance - show up, especially when it's inconvenient.
- Order first - Scripture, schedule, sleep.
- Truth + kindness - correct without contempt.
- Steady tone - no shouting, ever.
- Repair quickly - apologise without qualifiers.
Weekly Rhythm
- 1:1 Time - 30 minutes of undistracted conversation.
- Sabbath meal - phones away; blessings spoken.
- Service - one task done together for someone else.