Fathering Without Fear
By Abraham of London
A miracle child turned marked man — walking through death, betrayal, spiritual warfare and systemic injustice to become the father who refused to disappear.
Fathering Without Fear
The Story They Thought They Knew
This is not a parenting manual.
This is a war document.
The field report of a miracle child who became a marked man.
A devoted father dragged into battles he never chose.
A legacy almost stolen — and violently reclaimed.
The Prayer That Changed Everything
“If You give me my life back, I’ll serve You until I’m seventy-five.”
He prayed that as an eight-year-old boy who had stopped breathing.
He woke up.
He kept his word.
And the battle never stopped.
Born as one of the miracle triplets in 1977 Lagos — twenty-seven weeks, too early, too fragile, too impossible —
his first breath was a declaration of war against the odds.
Three became two.
Two became legends.
And legends, it turns out, come with a price.
Miracle Child. Marked Man.
From the very beginning, his life burned with quiet fire:
- a father — a teacher in Ayetoro — who refused to abandon his triplets, even when it cost everything
- a grandmother who moved in the unseen, speaking of spirits and destinies
- a sister whose death unlocked visions he did not ask for
- a brother, David, whose words — “Something always happens” — became both comfort and prophecy
They called them miracle children.
Nobody warned them that miracles attract warfare.
Lagos. Akure. London.
Three cities. Three furnaces.
Three invitations to disappear.
He did not disappear.
But not everyone survived.
What They Don’t Tell You About Miracles
Miracles are not soft light and gentle music.
They are tectonic demands.
They:
- attract darkness like a floodlight in a war zone
- mark you as a target for enemies you cannot see
- cost you people you cannot afford to lose
A romance that nearly killed him.
A marriage that tried to erase him.
A system that quietly positioned him for elimination as a father.
And a brother whose last words still echo in the places no one else can hear.
“Where was God when David died?”
That question did not just break his faith.
It forged his purpose.
From Courtrooms to Covenants
When the storms shifted from Nigeria’s chaos to London’s bureaucracy,
the battle changed costume — not intensity.
Denied the right to work.
Blocked from public funds.
Imprisoned in procedural delay.
Fighting for a British son who carries a name of kings
in a system that edits fathers out of the story quietly and efficiently.
He could have disappeared.
Instead, he did what his father did before him in Lagos:
he stood, he fought, he refused to surrender.
This is where fatherhood stops being sentimental
and becomes strategic warfare.
What This Memoir Really Is
At its core, Fathering Without Fear is:
- a memoir of spiritual warfare in everyday clothes
- a love story between a father and a son
- a legal and spiritual autopsy of systems that erase men in silence
- a tribute to those who left early and those who stayed to fight
It is the story of:
- a boy who died and came back
- a brother who became a ghost but never stopped speaking
- a man who refused to let fear, lies or injustice write his ending
He didn’t survive by luck.
He stayed by grace.
Who This Book Is For
This is for:
- men who are tired of being told to be quiet, compliant and grateful
- fathers fighting to remain in their children’s lives
- believers who have seen miracles — and also seen coffins
- women who love men like this, and want to understand the weight they carry
- anyone who has ever whispered, “Where were You when it broke?”
If you have ever felt:
- overlooked
- misunderstood
- falsely accused
- quietly erased
then you will recognise yourself in these pages.
Author’s Reflection
“I may not know your pain.
I may not have walked your paths or lived your story.
But I, too, have walked a path many cannot imagine.”
This memoir is his vow not to waste pain —
to turn private agony into public good,
to honour fathers who stood their ground,
a brother who never abandoned hope,
and a son he refuses to abandon — at any cost.
Beyond Survival — Resurrection
This is not the victory speech of a man who “made it.”
This is a live transmission from the battlefield.
Every time they tried to bury him — he rose.
Every time they tried to silence him — he spoke.
Every time they tried to separate him from his son —
he remembered the prayer and the prophecy:
“Something always happens.”
Fathering Without Fear
When miracles come with a price —
and the price is everything —
but the promise is eternal.
He didn’t just survive the fire.
He became the flame that refuses to be extinguished.
Because no matter what comes next —
something always happens.
And by the grace of God…
so does he.
— Abraham of London
Miracle Child. Marked Man. Devoted Father.
The brother who remembers.
The father who refuses to disappear.